WHAT IS CHEATING
Is he cheating?
Now lets constitute what is considered? "CHEATING" because if a man glances at another woman, or helps her carry her groceries, or maybe has an interesting conversation with the opposite sex about common interests this does not mean he is cheating.
Now for some woman this would be considered cheating, men do not consider this cheating, I would say that if this were to be a consistent behavior with one certain person then you would have cause to believe your man is thinking of straying.
You must be careful when accusing him of cheating, you don't want him to think that you are insecure or jealous because he shows random acts of kindness and attention to other woman.
First I would pay close attention to the way he is with woman, maybe he's just a friendly helpful guy, but then again maybe he's a big flirt, but jumping to conclusions is not going to get you any where, study his pattern, is he helpful to all woman? does he talk to alot of different woman? or just certain ones?
If you notice he is stumbling over his own feet because he seen the neighbor pull into her driveway, and she's struggling with her groceries, and he can't seem to get out there quick enough to help her, or he is always striking up a conversation with the same woman.
I would then bring it to his attention, let him know that you have been noticing the attention he is giving to certain woman, tell him how it makes you feel, if he says oh it's nothing, your building scenarios in your head, I'm just being a nice guy, you then know he's up to something and you shouldn't trust him, because if he hasn't already cheated, he's going to.
